Saturday 29 November 2014

LOVE


The only reason I’m writing on something as cliché as love is because I've been watching a lot of chick flicks off late. And undoubtedly, it got me thinking  what love actually is all about. These four letters are so powerful that they tend to evoke some kind of emotion in each and every one of us,no matter how small it might be.Feelings so special, which  we've probably never felt before.

 People say that love begins with friendship .That opposites attract each other and all that.The point being,people say and always will say a lot of things.But it is up to you to decide what you really want from someone,right?Communication is something that matters a lot.

Anyway,I've  jumped to four conclusions that I believe are imperative-

~Love is all about being there for someone when he/she needs you the most.~

~When you love someone,that person should be able to bring out that side of you that the world has been  completely unaware of.In other words,your best side or maybe even your worst.~

~Love is being able to be who you are no matter what.Changing  for someone you love is a big NO. Being brutally honest with yourself is essential.~

~If a relationship has to be a secret,you shouldn't be in it.~
 
Love is much more than sharing the same taste in music or sipping coffee together
It is much more than expressing your views on topics or sharing happiness and sadness
It is something that is deep,a feeling that has no bounds and is unfathomable.

Love, not because you have to but because you want to.
Love, not as a compulsion but as an option.
Love, because you know the world is going to fall apart soon.
Love ,because sometimes it's all you're meant to do.

He said,”We’re all a little weird.And life is a little weird.And when we find someone whose weirdness is compatible with ours,we join up with them and fall into mutually satisfying weirdness-and call it love-true love”

-Varuna 

Monday 3 November 2014

A sentimental Note


She stood on the ground where she  once created history.
She also stood on the ground where she  lost one of her closest friends.
At 18,she was an ecstatic young football player who had not only won accolades for her game but was also estimated to be one of the best players of her times.
However, the death of a dear one was a loss too heavy to bear, and the impact,even heavier.
She swore that she would never get back to the field.She couldn't handle the emotional trauma and the memories that would haunt her if she ever played again.

She had absolutely no idea  how to react to happiness and sadness at the same time,on the very same day.It was all new to her.On one hand,she had advanced her team to victory and  on the other,she had lost her confidant and her source of moral support.

Three years down the line,she happened to meet one of her team mates who tried convincing her to get back. "So,the fighter is running away now?She asked.To which the girl immediately retorted saying "Yes,I'm running,because sometimes, that's all you can do."

These are the kind of moments that influence our life,and the course it wishes to take.We need to understand  that our lives are scripted in a book called 'Fate' over which we have little or no control.We fail to accept reality the way it is.We run away because we think that's the only possible solution.
What we don't realize is that everything happens for a Reason.